im lost

tayron0630 · October 12th, 2010, 02:47 AM

I have been with a man for six years who at first was amazing but than we began fighting more, and then I got pregnant. I am living with him and our baby is a year old. She is our life, but he emotionally has been abusing me for years, and I am at my wits end. I feel so helpless, I am seriously co dependent on him and even my counselor says I became so wrapped up in trying to make other people happy that I lost my happiness in the process. I dont know what to do. We live together, and that is not changing right now, but I need strength and support to get through this.

thada · July 24th, 2011, 05:23 AM

When ever someone would tell the Muppets they were lost, the Muppets would all chime in, have you tried Harrie Krisna? All jokes aside, its not even about being happy, when you please others and do not take care of yourself, you lose yourself. I see the post was a while ago.... if you were feeling helpless, I hope you reached out to someone and surrendered to get help. Life is too short to let others dictate how you feel about yourself. You have no control over then, only how you react. I hope things worked out for the best for you!

October 12th, 2010, 02:47 AM	#1
tayron0630 Need of some advice Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: arizona Posts: 1	im lost I have been with a man for six years who at first was amazing but than we began fighting more, and then I got pregnant. I am living with him and our baby is a year old. She is our life, but he emotionally has been abusing me for years, and I am at my wits end. I feel so helpless, I am seriously co dependent on him and even my counselor says I became so wrapped up in trying to make other people happy that I lost my happiness in the process. I dont know what to do. We live together, and that is not changing right now, but I need strength and support to get through this.

July 24th, 2011, 05:23 AM	#2
thada Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1	When ever someone would tell the Muppets they were lost, the Muppets would all chime in, have you tried Harrie Krisna? All jokes aside, its not even about being happy, when you please others and do not take care of yourself, you lose yourself. I see the post was a while ago.... if you were feeling helpless, I hope you reached out to someone and surrendered to get help. Life is too short to let others dictate how you feel about yourself. You have no control over then, only how you react. I hope things worked out for the best for you! __________________ Thada