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Join Date: Aug 2011
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Junior Member
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: South africa ,cape town ,,little town called Manenberg
Posts: 4
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![]() Ey!! If u do get this howz the situation now...I feel for your mom an wot you an your two sisters must go through...its can't be easy,I wish I had the power in me to let all this go away an never come back...its obvious your momz depressed..she needs help an your the eldest daughter so get help so that mom can get better I'm sure there help out there if we just reach out...
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Join Date: May 2012
Posts: 7
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![]() Hi. I have dealt with depression, personally, and with others. I have found that it is more difficult to deal with other's depressions than my own.
I learned, for myself, that I needed to have an acceptance of the depression, in a way. I don't mean that I think depression is acceptable; I mean that when I faced it and accepted that there was something that needed to change in my life, I began the process of healing. When depression would happen again, I knew that it was a message to myself that I needed change again. Sometimes, the change was simply my outlook on life or an acceptance of life (people the way they are). I knew that I was a good soul, and that nobody could take that away from me. It was difficult when I was in a bad relationship, but holding on to my love for myself helped to keep me sane. Having someone in my life (the way your mother has you) always made a big difference, even if they were unable to solve my situation. Just having someone to listen was so important to me. I am writing in the personal perspective for a reason. It is not because I think it is about me; it is because I am being careful to simply share my experience and not advise. I remember people trying to tell me what I should do when I was depressed, and it never worked for me. I needed to figure it out, with loving help, on my own. I send a prayer out to your mother and you, and her husband. I pray that she find love and purpose that eases her depression. I pray that you naturally help her in ways that help you, too. I pray that her husband find his way along his path of evolution sooner than later so that she, at least, does not have negative influences that can make a depression worse. Love and light to you and yours, ADW. |
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