October 15th, 2009, 03:54 PM | #1 |
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Stop panic attacks without meds
Most people think that to overcome panic and phobias, you are supposed
to 'face your fears' Well that's a load of crap. The reason you feel panic is that a young part of you is terrified and doesn't trust the older parts of you to look after it. Forcing that young part to do something it clearly doesn't want to do will make the panic worse. Try this: Next time you panic, remove yourself from whatever it is that's causing it. I panic on buses and trains, I don't force myself to take trains, if I take a bus, I say to that part, "If you want to get off, we will get off". When I go to the cinema/theatre, I pre-book an aisle seat, I find out where the exit is and I say to myself "If you want to leave, we'll leave" I have been doing this for several years now and it really works. I can sit in waiting rooms now, something I could never do before, because that young part of me knows that if it wants to get up and go, we will, without hesitation. It has learned to trust me. In turn, I can reason with it sometimes when I really want to stay and I can be really kind to it and even ask it to try and be OK (this mostly works, but I still have work to do on this). I never take medication for panic, I think that this is really disrespectful to the parts of you that are trying to communicate, you just have to listen to them and eventually they will be less terrified, learn to trust you and panic attacks do get much less. I know that one day, I wont need to have them at all any more. Good Luck!
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