Codependency
 

This is a sneaky little bugger because it takes so many forms. I have had a problem with it for years and didn't know it until my T pointed it out. Sooo being the great and wonderful client I am I asked him how to get over it.

He told me to be patient, kind to myself, know that I am doing the correct thing for everybody involved. Absolutely no problem!!! But the codependency went on and on. My T and I had another little chat about what I should be doing.

((((((( KraftyKid ))))))))) just because. Be good to yourself.

I am so proud of myself. Just went through two days of torture. My grandson's dog is at the vet, very ill. He is being taken care of by a "new" vet. She has only been there 5 years. It was all I could do to keep from asking some of the older vets that we deal with to check it out and make sure he is getting the proper care. I fussed and fussed and couldn't think of any way I "should" fix it.

My daughter called today and said she had called and ask our regular old time vet to check on the dog. She explained that she was not unhappy with the "new" vet, but needed the reassurance of someone she knew and trusted.

I am so proud of myself, as is my husband and as my T will be.

Those were terrible days, but I made such a giant step!!!!!

Yay for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I love congratulating myself... ahahahahahahahah

KK!!!!!!!! GREAT JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!! :)

It's hard for me to step back to...but I have learned that I can't fix everything in the world...and I have stopped trying for the most part... :)

YOU DID GREAT AND I'm PROUD OF YOU TOO!!! :)

((((((((((((( KK ))))))))))))))))))))))

Thank you PBS my T was so very proud of me.

(((((((((( PBS ))))))))))

;) ok...so...now we both know we can't fix the world.... but... if they would just follow a couple of my suggestions, it might be soooo much better... ;)

giggle! ;)

Not only would it be better, it would be faster!!!

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ROTFL!!!!!!!!!!!!! too true!!! giggle! ;)

ok...so if I could only just fix a few little things??? PLEASE?!?!?!?!?!??!?! AUUUUUUUGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

i'm totally frustrated today by the lack of being able to do ANYTHING to FIX SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE...cuz..umm..yeah..i do such a great job on mine! LOL! :)

Seriously though..it's taken EVERYTHING I have today to NOT SAY... JUST DO WHAT I SAY AND IT WILL BE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hello... my name is PBS and ... I am an ENABLER... sigh.